NEXT COHORT STARTS Monday, June 22nd, 2026
You've done everything right.
Therapy. The apps. The self-work.
So why does it still feel like you're
stuck in the same place?
You’re not bad at dating.
You’re choosing without a system.
The LOVE Reboot
for 50+
★★★★★ "Within 2 weeks of creating my profile, I met someone interesting. Six years later, we're still happily together."
— Victoria H., Switzerland | Was: Skeptical of online dating. Now: In a 6-year relationship.
★★★★★ "The fear of dating has been replaced with confidence and enthusiasm. Nothing was wrong with me. The pattern was wrong. Now I have the tools to pick differently."
— Rachel L., Illinois | Was: Stuck picking partners who didn't meet her needs. Now: Dating with more clarity.
★★★★★ "I'm not chasing anyone anymore. I have clear boundaries and standards, and I'm willing to walk away if they're not met. I don't need a relationship to feel whole. That alone changed everything."
— Michelle G., New York | Was: Emotionally overwhelmed, focused on her ex. Now: Grounded, boundaried, and dating from self-respect.
Stop Fixing Your Profile.
Start Fixing What's Actually Broken.
A 12-week live program that rewires what's been holding you back
— and gives you a simple system to actually find your person.
Next cohort: June 22nd, 2026 · 10 spots
Early Enrollment Ends June 1st.
Here's
what
nobody
tells you
about
dating
after 50.
Most dating struggles after 50 aren’t random.
You're stepping into the dating world carrying a divorce, a marriage that taught you things, a career that shaped how you value your time, past relationships that left marks, disappointments you quietly absorbed, and an entire nervous system that learned, very efficiently, how to protect you from getting hurt again.
That is not baggage. That is a life.
All of that experience doesn't just inform your choices.
It runs them. Quietly. From the background.
You're not choosing people from scratch.
You're choosing from your pattern.
And the pattern was built from everything that came before. The hurt. The years of learning to protect yourself. The habits that kept you safe and are now keeping you stuck.
So How Do We Fix It?
We start by making your pattern visible, because you can't change what you can't see, and we upgrade your "inner operating system". Then we build the outer strategy around the new version of you.
Because mindset work without strategy leaves you enlightened but alone. And strategy without inner work leaves you repeating the same patterns with a better profile.
That's the gap The LOVE Reboot closes.
Meet Dessi
Dessi Schachne
Certified Life and Relationship Coach.
I've been exactly where you are.
That's not a selling point.
That's the point.
In 2012, I sat on my bathroom floor at 2 am after my marriage ended, convinced I'd never be able to trust another person or trust my own judgment again.
I did everything the books say to do. Therapy. Attachment theory. Self-work. I got very good at understanding why things weren't working. I just kept choosing the wrong people from the same patterns and coping mechanisms - seeking validation, people pleasing, anxious attachment...
It wasn't until I started studying the actual science — identity, nervous system regulation, attraction research — that something shifted. I built a lasting, secure partnership. And then I spent years turning that process into a step-by-step process my clients could use.
I'm a certified life and relationship coach, trained at the Life Coach School, the Institute for Coaching Mastery, and certified in Positive Psychology.
But more than any credential: I didn't learn this from a textbook. I learned it in the wreckage, and the rebuilding. And I know the way through.
My clients have found lasting partnerships. Clients who tell me, six months in, a year in, three years in, that what changed wasn't just who they were dating. It was who they had become.
Who is the LOVE Reboot for?
The Love Reboot is designed for men and women in their second chapter of life — humans who have already built careers, families, and lived through real relationship experiences.
The Independent Achiever
The Fresh Starter
The Burned Out Overgiver
The Guarded Survivor
Successful, capable, self-reliant. Accomplished in all areas of life. The only thing missing is finding the right partner.
Recently single after a long-term marriage or relationship. Perhaps you are divorced or widowed. Looking for guidance in starting a new chapter.
Spent decades taking care of others. You were the giver or the pleaser in every relationship. Now looking to break that pattern and find a balanced partnership.
You have been through serious relational pain: betrayal, infidelity, abandonment...You may be rebuilding after heartbreak and wanting to trust again.
Dating is not performance. It is not evaluation. It is not a race to the finish line.
And it's not a referendum on your
self-worth. Dating is simply exploration.
Dessi Schachne
Twelve weeks. Six phases.
One Profound Shift.
The LOVE Reboot is a live, guided transformation in a small circle of participants:
WEEK 1-3 | PHASE ONE
Identity & Inner Game
We start where the problem actually lives. Your dating results are a mirror of your internal identity. Scarcity mindset, rejection sensitivity, attachment wounds — these don't respond to tips.
We upgrade the operating system first. You'll understand your patterns, your saboteurs, and how to interrupt them before they derail the next relationship.
WEEK 4 | PHASE TWO
Design Your Vision & Magnetic Brand
Who are you now? Not who you were in your marriage or previous relationship. Not who you were at 30. Who are you today, with everything you've built and survived and learned? We build your partner compatibility map (PCM) AND your personal brand to attract the right person and filter out the wrong ones automatically.
WEEK 5-6 | PHASE THREE
Social Momentum
Where do compatible people actually exist for someone your age, and how do you place yourself where they gather? We optimize your real-world and digital exposure strategy. You'll learn to scout, sort, screen, and test — so you stop wasting emotional energy on people who were never going to be right.
WEEK 7-8 | PHASE FOUR
Attraction & Real Connection
Magnetism isn't chemistry. It's a learnable skill. We work on presence, feminine and masculine polarity, conversational depth, and romantic framing — the art of making someone feel fully seen and wanting to see you again. This is where the inner work and outer strategy finally meet.
WEEK 9-10 | PHASE FIVE
Conscious Compatibility
This is where dating stops feeling like a job interview. We focus on reading emotional availability, maintaining boundaries without walls, and filtering for genuine compatibility — so you stop confusing chemistry with compatibility. By week 10, most clients tell me dating feels like play for the first time.
WEEK 11-12 | PHASE SIX
Building a Relationship
From discovery to commitment. What does healthy partnership actually look and feel like — and how do you build it instead of waiting for it to arrive? We work on moving from early connection to intentional, secure relationship — without the self-sabotage and old coping strategies.
Not sure if this is for you? Book a call.
Why this works,
when everything else hasn't
THE APPROACH
Built for 50+
Most dating programs were built for people in their 20s and quietly modified for everyone else. This program was designed from the ground up for people in their second chapter — your relationship history, your biological realities, your evolved sense of what you actually need. That's not a footnote. It's the foundation.
THE GUIDE
Coached by Someone Who's Lived It
I'm not teaching this from a textbook. I went through a divorce, years of figuring this out myself, and built a lasting partnership using the exact framework I will teach you. That lived experience means I can see your blind spots, because I had them too. And I know the way through.
THE FORMAT
10 People Max — Not a Course, Not a Crowd
No 200-person Zoom. The Love After 50 program is a small transformation circle, capped at 10 participants, where you get real-time coaching, real accountability, and relationships with people who genuinely understand where you are. Many clients stay in touch long after the 12 weeks.
THE PERSPECTIVE
Both Men & Women
Most dating programs separate men and women. I coach both together, which means I bring both perspectives into every session. You'll stop guessing what men prefer or what women want, because you can hear it directly from the other side. That's not something you can get from a program that only talks to people like you.
What Actually Changes?
★★★★★
"After my divorce, which came after my ex’s infidelity, I really lost trust in myself. I kept wondering how I missed it. Through this work, I learned how to date with better standards and trust my intuition. I could actually see for the first time what was and wasn’t right for me. After a few months I met a very special woman on Facebook Dating. We live about 60 miles apart, but we make it work and I feel grateful for Dessi's guidance."
— Andrew, New Jersey
★★★★★
"After a 21-year sexless marriage and a prolonged divorce, I honestly didn't know if I could be open to love again. Dessi helped me recognize that the man I'd met over Covid wasn't just a casual rebound — he had the qualities of a great partner who truly cared for me."
— Paula, Connecticut
Was: Unsure she could open to love after a 21-year marriage. Now: In a committed partnership.
★★★★★
"Dessi’s coaching has been deeply healing. After a painful breakup, I felt lost, hurt, and overwhelmed by my emotions. With her support, I began to view the breakup not as an ending but as a powerful turning point. Each session with her brings fresh ‘aha’ moments. Spending time with Dessi is truly an act of self-care and a gift to yourself."
— Nada, New York | Was: Lost and overwhelmed after a painful breakup. Now: Viewing it as a turning point, feeling at peace.
★★★★★
"Working with Dessi started as a way to get my dating life back on track — but the impact went way beyond that. I communicate better, set healthier boundaries, and feel more confident in every area of my life."
— Tony, Florida | Was: Stuck in dating patterns. Now: More confident across relationships, work, and family.
★★★★★
"I now feel so much more confident and equipped to navigate dating — and I still use the mindset tools every day."
— Eva, Florida | Was: Stuck in the same attachment patterns after divorce. Now: Equipped, confident, and dating with clarity.
Tangible Outcomes
Here's what life looks like 12 weeks from now:
You’ll know within the first few dates whether someone is a real match
You’ll stop over-investing in emotionally unavailable people without second-guessing yourself
You’ll have a clear, non-negotiable filter for who belongs in your life and who doesn’t
You’ll trust your judgment again
You’ll stop confusing intensity with compatibility
You’ll feel confident walking away from the wrong person
You’ll know how to create real momentum in your dating life
You’ll experience dating as something grounded and even enjoyable, not draining, confusing, or performative
June 22nd 2026 Cohort · 10 Spots Total
Join the LOVE Reboot
Most people spend $5,000–$50,000 on matchmakers. Months in therapy. Or years stuck in the same loop, which has its own cost. The Love Reboot is designed to be the last investment you make in this problem.
Regular Price: $1,997
Early Enrollment Rate:
3 payments of
$397
1 payment of
$997
Pay in full and save $194.
Early Enrollment ends June 1st.
Not sure if this is for you? Book a call.
100% Money Back Guarantee
I'm staking my reputation on your transformation.
Show up. Do the work. Attend the sessions. If you complete the program and don't walk away with genuine clarity about what's been blocking you, real tools to change it, and renewed confidence in your ability to attract lasting love, I want to hear from you within 7 days of our final session. I'll refund every dollar.
This is a promise built on results.
Here is Everything You Get
12 Live Transformation Sessions - Weekly deep-dive sessions where we work through the Love Reboot curriculum together, with real-time coaching and breakthroughs in our intimate group setting.
All Session Replays
Weekly Workbooks - Fresh content and exercises delivered each week, specifically designed to reboot your mindset and heal your nervous system, so you can get into action and create the result you want in your love life.
Plus the following signature pieces:
1. The Saboteur Reset: A complete system for rewiring your mental patterns and improving your relationships and wellbeing.
2. Your Partner Blueprint: a clear map of your partner requirements, needs, wants, and deal breakers.
3. The Online Dating Masterclass
4. The Love Ecosystem Challenge: A structured 30-day challenge that gets you out into real social environments and builds the habit of meeting people offline.
The Complete Dating Toolkit - The Ultimate Online Dating Bundle; Conversation Openers; Red Flag Detection System; The Rejection Resilience Formula; Flirting Attraction techniques. And more.
Private Community Portal - Your exclusive space to access all session recordings, celebrate wins, share breakthroughs, and stay connected with your cohort throughout the journey and beyond.
What you need to bring:
- an open mind
- a journal or notebook
- a commitment to yourself and to prioritizing attending the live sessions (that's where the magic happens).
Not sure if this is for you? Book a call.
Two
versions
of you
exist
right
now.
In one version, you reserved your spot. You showed up — maybe nervously, maybe skeptically. And over 12 weeks, something shifted.
You started to recognize the right person. You stopped wasting months on the wrong ones. You felt, maybe for the first time in years, like your love life was actually moving.
In the other version, you bookmarked this page. Waited until you were "more ready." The enrollment deadline came and went, like every other week before it.
You've already diagnosed the problem. You've known it for months, maybe longer. What you need now isn't more insight. It's a guide, a method, and a circle of people who get it.
Your second act is waiting. Write it with intention.
June 22nd, 2026 Cohort · 10 Spots Total
This is your second act.
Make it the best one yet.
Regular Price: $1,997
Early Enrollment Rate:
3 Payments of
$397
1 Payment of
$997
Pay in full and save $194.
Early Enrollment ends June 1st.
Not sure if this is for you? Book a call.
Your Love Story is Waiting for You
You didn't get here without surviving things that would have broken someone else. A marriage that ended. Years of figuring it out alone. The quiet grief of wondering if the best of your love story was already behind you.
It isn't.
But the version of you that found your way through all of that, that person needs a different strategy than the one you've been running.
Not more patience. Not more apps. A different framework.
That's what's waiting for you on May 18th.
This is your second act. Write it with intention.
FAQs
Answer: You only need to commit to eight of the 12 weekly live sessions. Plus, if life gets busy, recordings and a private community portal ensure you can catch up and stay connected on your own schedule.
Answer: This program combines mindset and practical dating strategies to create genuine, sustainable transformation. You’re not just learning theory—you’re actively shifting beliefs while taking real-world action.
Answer: You’ll know you are ready when you are sick and tired of the strategies you have already tried. When you are ready to invest time and money into yourself and your happiness. When you are ready to take a good look at yourself, and do the work it takes to get more conscious of your patterns and break them.
Answer: I believe in this program so strongly that I offer a 100% Money-Back Guarantee. If you attend the sessions, complete the exercises, and still don’t feel more confident and equipped to find the right partner, email me within 7 days of completing it, and I’ll refund your full investment.
Answer: Not at all. The Love Reboot is tailor-made for singles 50+. It honors your life experience, emotional needs, and even biological realities. You get dating strategies that fit where you are now—not generalized advice that is found in programs aimed at "everyone".
Answer: This isn’t a large, impersonal course. Each cohort is capped at just 10 people, fostering closeness, real-time coaching, and a deeply supportive environment. Participants are pre-screened through the application process to ensure compatibility.
Answer: You’ll receive:
A clear understanding of what’s held you back (mindset blocks, patterns, limiting beliefs)
A toolkit of practical dating tools (Partner Compatibility Map, Conversation Openers, Red Flag Detection, and more)
Confidence-boosting practices to use in dating and beyond
A clear plan to start dating with intention - with joy and clarity
Answer: That’s totally okay. While the program is designed for group synergy, I value your comfort too. If this format doesn’t feel like the right fit, I’d be happy to discuss personalized 1-on-1 coaching that meets you where you are. Just reach out, and we can explore the best path forward.
Answer: I stand fully behind this program. If you attend the sessions, complete the exercises, and still don't walk away with genuine clarity and renewed confidence, email me within 7 days of our final session and I'll refund every dollar. That's my promise.
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